To be thoughtful means to make a conscious choice with heedful anticipation of the needs and want of others. It is giving attention to small things in life that are often taken for granted.
10 tools to imbibe thoughtfulness :
T - Take time make relationships you priority, time is our most valuable commodity, share and care.
H - Hold hands. Tactile deprivation leads too resentment. A physical attachment full of priority leads to healing.
O - Offer Optimism, Relationships require us to prepare for the worst while expecting the best.
U - Use understanding." Seek to understand before being understood" these are one of the wisest words being spoken. When someone feels understood, more empathy, loyalty and trueness in feeling is generated.
G - Give gentleness.
H - Help heal. Helping a person navigate through a rough path in life not only offers emotional support, but it also makes life more pleasant and trust more persistent.
T - Think tenderly. Tender gestures exhibited towards others makes life more beautiful and sweater.
F - Find forgiveness. Forgiveness is a necessity for a long and lasting relationship. The sooner you give it the better you feel.
U - Unite unselfishly. Share everything you can. There is no place for me and mine in real humanity. Our mind needs to elevate from the level of yours and ours.
L - Love limitlessly. Pure love be it in any relation is unconditional. It is a sensation which when enters you, it heals you!.
"Thoughtfulness for others generosity, modesty and self respect are the qualities which make a real gentleman or lady." - Thomas Huxley.
A little consideration, a little thought for others, makes all the difference!.